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Reading List 2014

I’m not sure if readers love them, but I read enough blogs to know that bloggers love to create them: End-of-the-Year Lists. This is my contribution—the list of books I read in 2014 and a few comments about them.

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Below is the list of books that I read in 2014. My goal for the last two years was to read 52 books during the year, or about one book a week. As you can see, I didn’t quite make it. I only hit 50 books. (For the nerds out there, the numbers come in at 13,075 total pages, or about 261 pages per week.) But I’m not too bummed; by God’s grace, I got closer than last year (34). Maybe in 2015 it will happen.

Some Disclaimers

As you glance at the list, you might notice a few things (some of them a little goofy), so I might as well point them out. First, I removed the “dates of completion,” but the books are listed in the order that I completed them.

Second, I didn’t count partial books, except for one. I only made it through one-third of The Moral Vision of the New Testament by Richard B. Hays. The book is huge. I took it on vacation in August, and, well, you know how it goes. Maybe someday I’ll come back to it.

Third, you’ll see books from several different categories (some about writing, blogging and publishing; others on preaching, theology, and Christian living; and one biography, and a few novels). I do this for a number of reasons, but one of them is cross training; it’s a healthy thing. Another reason is for continuing education. Oh – and don’t forget – for enjoyment. That’s important too.

A few of my favorites were as follows: In the writing cluster, I enjoyed How to Write Short by Peter Roy Clark (everything he writes is helpful), and Spunk and Bite by Arthur Plotnik (the title is a rift on the famous book by Strunk and White).

As for preaching, I re-read Christ-Centered Preaching by Bryan Chappell and The Supremacy of God in Preaching by John Piper (for like the fourth time). Both are excellent in different ways (Christ-Centered Preaching deals with the theology of preaching but also the mechanics of preaching and the anatomy of a sermon, whereas The Supremacy of God in Preaching focuses on the goals and traits of good preaching with a case study on Jonathan Edwards).

As for theology and Christian living, everything Robert Gagnon has written on homosexuality is helpful, but beware: his treatments tend to be exhaustive, which means they also tend to be quite long. Additionally, the essays in Themelios (written by several authors) were full of riveting scholarship.

In the category of biography and novels, I really enjoyed The Grapes of Wrath and The Pearl, both by John Steinbeck, and Justified Conduct by Linda Vargo (she is working on the sequel; I know because she is letting me help edit it). I also greatly enjoyed Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand (you can see my book review here).

Fourth, #42 on the list is The Bible. Yep, I count that one too. Actually, I hope it makes this list every year. This leads to the next comment.

Fifth, where page counts are not obvious, I took my best guess based on an average “words per page” of the typical book. I did this for books like The Bible and Robert Gagnon’s 60,000+ words of email correspondence about the topic of “homosexuality and the Bible,” which I printed and read with great interest. Fascinating stuff – firm at times, but always very pastoral. And these types of “books” lead to the last disclaimer.

Sixth, I’m aware that calling everything on the list a “book” is a stretch. For example, Gagnon’s “published” emails; Themelios is a theological journal published three times a year; and Ramona and Her Father is a children’s book that I thoroughly enjoyed reading out loud with my oldest daughter (we alternated reading pages). But if a man is trying to hit 52 books in one year, he tends to want to count it all.

I Hope to Encourage

More could be said, but I’ll end with this. I’m not sure if this list will encourage or discourage – or maybe some of both.

My strong hope is that it will encourage you to read and learn and grow. And if it does happen to discourage, keep two things in mind: First, I used to hate to read and rarely did it. Second, for two years in a row, I have not hit my target, but I try not to worry about that. The reality is this: whether I read the “right” number of books or not, I made progress. And that was always the goal behind the goal. Maybe your goal in 2015 is only to read one book a month. I say go for it; even if you come up a little short, you’ll make some progress, and learn, and grow, and hopefully enjoy it too.

Reading List 2014

  1. Sticky Teams: Keeping Your Leadership Team and Staff on the Same Page by Larry Osborne (225 pages)
  2. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable by Patrick Lencioni (240 pages)
  3. How Can I Change?: Victory in the Struggle Against Sin by C.J. Mahaney and Robin Boisvert (96 pages)
  4. Glorious Ruin: How Suffering Sets You Free by Tullian Tchividjian (208 pages)
  5. Words for Readers and Writers: Spirit Pooled Dialogues by Larry Woiwode (240 pages)
  6. Preaching with Purpose: The Urgent Task of Homiletics by Jay Adams (162 pages)
  7. Biblical Preaching: The Development and Delivery of Expository Messages (revised) by Haddon W. Robinson (256 pages)
  8. Speaking To Teenagers: How to Think About, Create, and Deliver Effective Messagesby Doug Fields and Duffy Robbins (256 pages)
  9. Justified Conduct by Linda Vargo (394 pages)
  10. Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck (120 pages)
  11. I Am a Church Member: Discovering the Attitude that Makes the Difference by Thom S. Rainer (96 pages)
  12. The Pearl by John Steinbeck (90 pages)
  13. Christ-Centered Preaching: Redeeming the Expository Sermon (2nd Edition) by Bryan Chapell (400 pages)
  14. The Supremacy of God in Preaching by John Piper (128 pages)
  15. Hearing to Tell: Listening for Gospel Inroads in the Stories of Non-Christians (Doctor of Ministry Dissertation) by Jason Abbott (174 pages)
  16. Self-Publishing 101 by Debbie Elicksen (180 pages)
  17. How to Write Short: Word Craft for Fast Times by Peter Roy Clark (272 pages)
  18. The Indie Author Guide: Self-Publishing Strategies Anyone Can Use by April L. Hamilton (304 pages)
  19. Spunk & Bite: A Writer’s Guide to Bold, Contemporary Style by Arthur Plotnik (272 pages)
  20. Buzz: Blue-collar Blogging and Publishing for Profit (eBook) by Frank Viola (and others) (99 pages)
  21. The Publishing Game: Find an Agent in 30 Days by Fern Reiss (224 pages)
  22. The Elephants of Style: A Trunkload of Tips on the Big Issues and Gray Areas of Contemporary American English by Bill Walsh (238 pages)
  23. The Man Who Planted Trees by Jean Giono (72 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  24. Encounters with Jesus: Unexpected Answers to Life’s Biggest Questions by Timothy Keller (240 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  25. How and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child’s Sexual Character by Stan & Barbra Jones (280 pages)
  26. The Grapes of Wrath (50th Anniversary Edition) by John Steinbeck (640 pages)
  27. Dude’s Guide to Manhood: Finding True Manliness in a World of Counterfeits by Darrin Patrick (208 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  28. The Bible and Homosexual Practice: Text and Hermeneutics by Robert A. J. Gagnon (522 pages)
  29. The Bible and Homosexuality: Two Views by Robert A. J. Gagnon & Dan O. Via (128 pages)
  30. The Bible and Homosexuality: Two Views_Extra_Material (http://www.robgagnon.net/) by Robert A. J. Gagnon (~160 pages)
  31. Robert Gagnon Email Correspondence (http://www.robgagnon.net/by Robert A. J. Gagnon (~191 pages)
  32. Gagnon & Walter Wink interaction (Christian Century, http://www.robgagnon.net/, & Horizons in Biblical Theology) by Robert A. J. Gagnon & Walter Wink (135 pages)
  33. What is the Meaning of Sex? by Denny Burk (272 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  34. The Author’s DIY Modern Marketing Workbook: Your Step-By-Step Plan to Marketing Social Media, Blogging & Newsletters by Mixtus Media (20 pages)
  35. Your Noisetrade Books Strategy: How to Gain Loyal Fans Using Modern Marketing Tools by Jenn & Marcus DePaula (40 pages)
  36. The Pastor’s Kid: Finding Your Own Faith and Identity by Barnabas Piper (160 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  37. Seeing Beauty and Saying Beautifully: The Power of Poetic Effort in the Work of George Herbert, George Whitefield, and C. S. Lewis (The Swans Are Not Silent) by John Piper (160 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  38. Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand (528 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  39. Leviticus (Tyndale Old Testament Commentaries) by Jay Sklar (336 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  40. Eats, Shoots & Leaves: A Zero Tolerance Approach to Punctuation by Lynne Truss (240 pages)
  41. Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott (272 pages)
  42. The Bible by God (2,084 pages)
  43. Ramona and Her Father by Beverly Cleary (170 pages)
  44. The Moral Vision of the New Testament: Community, Cross, New Creation, A Contemporary Introduction to New Testament Ethics (stopped at page 187) by Richard B. Hays (187 pages)
  45. Grave Robber: How Jesus Can Make Your Impossible Possible by Mark Batterson (200 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  46. Future Men: Raising Boys to Fight Giants by Douglas Wilson (199 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  47. Lit!: A Christian Guide to Reading Books by Tony Reinke (208 pages)
  48. Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper (192 pages) [Click here to read my review]
  49. Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope that Matters by Timothy Keller (248 pages)
  50. Themelios: An International Journal for Students and Religious Studies (Vol. 39, issue 3; November 2014) by D.A. Carson et al. (221 pages)

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LEVITICUS by Jay Sklar (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

For sermon preparation and other teaching responsibilities, I typically spend a few hours a week reading Bible commentaries. But rarely do I read them cover to cover. However, I’m glad I did this for LEVITICUS by Dr. Jay Sklar. He is a reliable tour guide through, what is for many, a foreign land.

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Leviticus by Jay Sklar in the Tyndale Old Testament Commentaries series (IVP Academic, 2014, 336 pages)

It is common to hear jokes about how boring and unreadable the Bible is, especially of books like Leviticus. I’m sure Jay Sklar knows this better than anyone. In the preface to his recent commentary Leviticus in the Tyndale series, he writes:

When I tell people that I’ve spent years studying Leviticus, many respond with the type of smile that says, ‘Oh well, at least he’s not hurting anyone. (Sklar, Leviticus, 9)

That’s funny, at least it is to me. But I’m sure there were moments during, say, fifteen years of in-depth study of the book, when the jokes got old. However, rightly understood, Leviticus is a cave full of treasure for God’s people. And I’m thankful for this commentary because it helped me find the gold.

Also in the preface, Sklar stated his goal for the commentary:

To make clear what is it that the Lord said to the ancient Israelites and, in doing so, to make clear what the Lord is saying to us today. (9-10)

How did Sklar accomplished this mission? Below are five of the ways.

1. Helpful Flow

The commentary opens with an extended summary of Leviticus and issues related to its study. After the introductory material, Sklar proceeds in a helpful pattern of commentary: First, “Context,” then “Comment,” and then “Meaning” for each section passage.

2. The Forest AND the Trees

The strength of all good commentaries is that they provide “hi-res” pictures of the text. But this can also be a weakness, that is, if the commentary never zooms out from the specifics to see the larger principles at work and what aspects of God’s character are on display. Sklar, however, at key junctures, was able to zoom out remarkably well. And in those moments, I think many will be surprised – although this isn’t the best way to say this – at how “New Testament” Leviticus sounds (especially with respect to God’s character and his gracious dealings with his people).

3. Not Overreaching

Another reason that I appreciated the commentary, is that it was consistently responsible and not overreaching in its conclusions. Let me illustrate this point by starting with a little Leviticus trivia.

Imagine that you are an Israelite woman in the ancient Near East that has recently given birth to a male child. Do you know how many days that you are ceremonially “unclean” after giving birth to a male? The answer is 40 days. You can find it in Leviticus 12. But what if, instead, you had a female child. Then how many days are you unclean? The answer is 80, not 40 (also in Lev. 12). But why?

Sklar, after exploring several possible reasons, writes this:

We simply do not know why the length of impurity differs between boys and girls. (179)

See what I mean by “responsible and not overreaching.” He explains only as far as the text and responsible scholarship allows. That sounds like an easy thing to do, but it’s not. The gravitational pull towards speculation is strong.

4. Asks and Answers the Hard Questions

But the whole commentary is certainly not 336 pages of agnosticism (“Well, we really can’t know…” or “It’s not fully clear…” or “Scholars disagree…”). Rather, the hard questions are asked and answers are given.

For example, which laws in Leviticus apply today? See page 57. And did the sacrifices “really atone for sin” when the New Testament states that this was “impossible”? See page 72.

5. A View Towards Accessibility

As is consistent with Tyndale Old Testament Commentaries (TOTC), Leviticus is user-friendly, even to those without formal theological education. The TOTC series often has – and I would say Leviticus is a particularly good example of this – explanations of key terms, many analogies to the modern world, and helpful charts. A personal favorite chart in Leviticus was the decision tree for priests in the evaluation of skin diseases based on Leviticus 13-14. I smiled at the thought of an ancient priest making a ‘cheat sheet’ with a similar diagram.

In summary, if you are looking to engage with God and his Word on a deeper level, and you are up for doing this in a book often neglected, then Leviticus (with Sklar as your tour guide), is a great place to start.

A Favorite Quote

“When the Israelites obeyed the Lord’s covenant commands, they would experience the covenant blessings that humanity was created to enjoy: walking in rich fellowship with their divine King who cared for them and provide for all their needs. This was like a return to the garden of Eden in Genesis 2, where God’s people lived securely in a fruitful land, with all of their needs met, walking in obedient fellowship with their gracious Lord. Israel was privileged with showing the nations this vision of Eden and inviting them to experience it.” (Sklar, Leviticus, 324)

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UNBROKEN by Laura Hillenbrand (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

A book review of UNBROKEN -- the unbelievable story of Louis Zamperini.

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A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand (Random House, original 2010, paperback reprint July 29, 2014, 528 pages)

Have you ever wanted to know how to run a four-minute mile? Or what it would be like to cross the Atlantic on a cruise ship full of Olympic athletes? Or how to drop bombs from an aircraft? Or how to fend off ravenous sharks?

Or perhaps you want to know how to survive on a teeny yellow raft, drifting over 2,000 miles on the Pacific Ocean? Or maybe you want to know how deep underwater you must swim to avoid the lethal impact of bullets from an airplane? Or how to survive as a Japanese Prisoner of War when all you know is 500 calories a day from moldy seaweed broth, cold nights, beatings, more beatings, and hard labor?

But maybe you don’t want to know any of these things.

Perhaps you want to know how someone steeped in addiction, on the edge of divorce, and controlled by murderous rage—or in short, someone whose life is in a nosedive with double engine failure—could survive, and then go on to forgive his enemies.

If that’s you, then know this: Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand will not teach you any of these things.

Well, that’s not exactly true; it might teach you a few of them. (When fending off sharks: open eyes wide, bear your teeth, and pound them in the nose.)

But Unbroken does tell the story of a man who experienced all of these things and more. Did I mention that Adolf Hitler wanted to shake Louie’s hand after his 5,000m race in the 1936 Berlin Olympics, but because of where Hitler was sitting, he and Louie could not fully reach each other and only touched fingers?

Yes, Unbroken is – in that overused word – unbelievable.

If you have never heard of Louis Zamperini or the story of Unbroken, I suspect that will change this winter when the movie version, directed by Angelina Jolie, is released on Christmas Day (see trailer below).

Laura Hillenbrand (author of Seabiscuit) spent seven years researching the Zamperini story, and it shows. Starting with the rebellious young Louie, the book runs us through his life with remarkable precision. Her writing style is sparse and understated, and yet at the same time profound, getting extraordinary mileage through the occasional key word with double and deeper meanings. As well, Hillenbrand is a master of juxtaposition.

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But it’s not only Louie’s life that is on display. As Hillenbrand tells Louie’s story, she invites readers into the story of every WWII airman and every Pacific POW – not unlike the way Tom Joad (The Grapes of Wrath) tells the story of every suffering, migrating Okie. And like the Joads, some WWII warriors fared better than Louie, and others, though it’s hard to fathom, fared worse.

In my copy of the book, there a transcript of an interview with the author. When asked what it was that specifically captivated her about Louie’s story, she writes this:

So many elements of Louie’s saga were enthralling, but one in particular hooked me… How can you tell of being victimized by such monstrous men, yet not express rage? His response was simple: Because I forgave them.

It was this, more than anything, that hooked me. How could this man forgive the unforgiveable? In setting out to write Louie’s story biography, I set out to find the answer.” (487-8, emphasis original)

In other words, Unbroken is the story of how the forgiveness of one’s enemies becomes believable.

Yet it is at this very point, the very epicenter of the story that shook her, that I am unsure whether Hillenbrand ever found her answer.

Louie Zamperini, however, found the answer. He found it at a Billy Graham Crusade in 1949. He was tricked into going by his wife; but after that night, everything about everything changed.

If Hillenbrand saw this – that is, if she found that the answer to ‘how radical forgiveness can happen’ is only found in the supernatural power of Christian conversion – then she doesn’t tip her hand; she lets readers connect the dots for themselves.

A few weeks ago, a friend remarked to me that she heard that the upcoming movie version “takes God out of the story.” I don’t know whether that’s true or not; we will all have to wait and see. But, based on the book, I’m not sure how much God really is in Hillenbrand’s story. And if God is in there, then he is there the way he is “there” in the book of Esther – the unnamed, mysterious hand of Providence: guiding, protecting, and saving his people. Louis Zamperini knew this ‘hand of Providence,’ and after reading his story, I know it better.

From the Preface

“All he could see, in every direction, was water.

“It was late June 1943. Somewhere on the endless expanse of the Pacific Ocean, Army Air Forces bombardier and Olympic runner Louie Zamperini lay across a small raft, drifting westward. Slumped alongside him was a sergeant, one of his plane’s gunners. On a separate raft, tethered to the first, lay another crewman, a gash zigzagging across his forehead. Their bodies, burned by the sun and stained yellow from the raft dye, had winnowed down to skeletons. Sharks glided in lazy loops around them, dragging their backs along the rafts, waiting.

“The men had been adrift for twenty-seven days. Borne by an equatorial current, they had floated at least one thousand miles, deep into Japanese-controlled waters. The rafts were beginning to deteriorate into jelly, and gave off a sour, burning odor. The men’s bodies were pocked with salt sores, and their lips were so swollen that they pressed into their nostrils and chins. They spent their days with their eyes fixed on the sky, singing “White Christmas,” muttering about food. No one was even looking for them anymore. They were alone on sixty-four million square miles of ocean.” (Hillenbrand, Unbroken, xvii-xviii)

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Unbroken, The Book and The Movie

UNBROKEN is the story of Louis Zamperini. When his WWII plane went down over the Pacific, he drifted on the open ocean in a tiny yellow raft for forty-seven days while sharks tried to eat him. Finally, he reached land. And then it got worse.

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Unbroken is the story of Louis Zamperini. The subtitle of the book is A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption, and it is a story of at least all of those things: Survival – Resilience –  Redemption. It’s also the story of brokenness, brokenness in so many ways.

On the cover of my copy of the book, it states that the book was on the New York Times bestseller list for three years. As of today, it’s still number one in the paperback non-fiction category.

The author is Laura Hillenbrand. She has only written two books. You might have heard of the other one: Seabiscuit (also a bestseller and movie).

On Christmas Day, the movie version of Unbroken will be released. It was directed by Angelina Jolie.

Apparently, Zamperini and Jolie are neighbors in Hollywood (not metaphorically or anything, but literally from Louie’s backyard you could see her and Brad’s house).

Louie died this summer. He was 97 years old – a hero and a committed Christian.

On Tuesday, I’m going to release my review of the book. In the meantime, I thought you might enjoy watching the trailer to the movie. And if you hurry, you still have time to get the book and read it before the movie comes out.

Movie Trailer

Subscribe to TRAILERS: http://bit.ly/sxaw6h Subscribe to COMING SOON: http://bit.ly/H2vZUn Like us on FACEBOOK: http://goo.gl/dHs73 Unbroken Official Olympics Preview Trailer (2014) - Angelina Jolie Directed Movie HD A chronicle of the life of Louis Zamperini, an Olympic runner who was taken prisoner by Japanese forces during World War II.

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THE TYRANNY OF THE URGENT by Charles E. Hummel (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

Right now, stop what you are doing and read this blog post. Seriously. I am urgent. I am a helpful review that can't wait. You can do whatever you are doing now, later.

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The Tyranny of the Urgent by Charles E. Hummel (IVP Books, ‘Revised & enlarged edition’ April 19, 1994; 31 pages)

A friend gave me this little booklet about 3 months ago. I was going to read it right away, but … well … I think you know where this is going.

The central thesis is this: most people have lives devoured by “the urgent” but not necessarily important, and this is so to such an extent that we neglect the truly important.

My copy of the booklet states that it was originally published in 1967 and “updated and expanded” in ’94. This makes the author’s comments about the “invasion of the telephone” all the more true of our smartphones.

I do not agree with every statement, (e.g., “The worst sin is prayerlessness”), but I did very much appreciate the counsel on time-management, perhaps analogous to Dave Ramsey’s financial budgeting, for those familiar.

But what I found most helpful, convicting, and encouraging were the reflections upon Jesus’ life and the Bible verses about how Jesus “completed his Father’s will.”

Did “completing” mean that Jesus healed every sick person, or cast out every demon, or preached in every village? No, it didn’t. But he did his Father’s will for him, and that was enough. And it should be our aim as well—a freeing, not crushing, ambition.

So what’s the main takeaway? It’s this: what is important in life rarely dances on the coffee table and tells you she is so. And if she does, it’s probably too late. Better listen while she whispers.

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THE PASTOR’S KID by Barnabas Piper (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

Barnabas writes of some pastors that need “a bucket of ice water in their sleeping face." Perhaps I have been more asleep than I knew.

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The Pastor’s Kid: Finding Your Own Faith and Identity by Barnabas Piper (David C. Cook, July 1, 2014, 160 pages)

[Disclaimer: Typically, I keep book reviews short. That’s not the way this one goes for reasons that will hopefully be apparent. It’s more of a “cup of coffee” review than a “scroll through the iPhone” review.]

In the spring, Dr. John Piper gave a guest lecture at Westminster Theological Seminary in Philadelphia titled, The New Calvinism and the New Community. A man at our church is taking some classes at WTS, and he invited me to attend the lecture with him. I didn’t have to think about whether I would make time to attend or not; I mean, I have an entire row of books on a book shelf written by Piper.

In the lecture, Dr. John Piper commented on his “fatherly” influence on many. Here’s what he said,

I am part of the New Calvinism and feel a sense of fatherly responsibility to continually speak into it dimensions of biblical truth that I think it needs to hear.

During the Q&A that followed, student after student expressed their appreciation to Dr. Piper for his ministry. But I didn’t need others to tell me that Dr. Piper has had a fatherly influence. I already knew that it was certainly true for me.

However, John Piper never went to my Little League games. And he never gave me a piggyback ride or tucked me in at night or tromped through the Georgia woods with me looking for Civil War-era ruins.

Those things, John Piper did with his own children. Those things he did with his own son, Barnabas Piper.

The Foreword to the Pastor’s Kid

In his foreword to The Pastor’s Kid by his son Barnabas, John Piper writes,

You will ask, “Was it painful for me to read this book?” The answer is yes. For at least three reasons. First, it exposes sins and weaknesses and imperfections in me. Second, it is not always clear which of its criticisms attach to me and the church I love. Third, this is my son, and he is writing out of his own sorrows.

And this book was difficult for me to read as well, but for different reasons.

First, a part of me, a sinful part of me, wanted the book to give me the inside scoop on my hero—the backstage pass to all the gossip, you know, reporting TMZ style. And that’s not what this book is. Occasionally, a few table scraps fall from the actual Piper kitchen table, but that’s about all. And I'm actually thankful; the book and I are better for it.

Second, I am a pastor now, but I am not as aware as I should be of the unique challenges to being in a pastor’s family. And I said “the unique challenges of being in a pastor’s family” and not just a “pastor’s kid,” because when my wife read the book, she thought it could be titled “The Pastor’s Wife” for all of the overlap. Regardless, in the introduction, Barnabas writes of some pastors that need “a bucket of ice water in [their] sleeping face” (17). Perhaps I have been more asleep than I knew, or at least more drowsy.

But even though it wasn’t easy to read (when is ice water in the face easy?), and even though I might have (sinfully) hoped for a different book, let me share three ways Barnabas’ book helped me.

First, Barnabas, Thank You for Helping Me Be a Better Parent

Barnabas stuffs The Pastor’s Kid with great parenting advice for PKs. It commends things like “showing, not just telling, Jesus” and explaining the “why” behind the rules, that is, the values that give rise to the “dos and don’ts.”

But those were general ‘helps’ to me and my parenting. Here’s a specific one. The book raised my awareness of the potential collateral damage when family members make cameo appearances in sermon illustrations. I was already cautious of this, but Barnabas gave a few examples from his own life—a few difficult examples—that crystalized my awareness.

In fact, just last week, as I prepared my sermon, I thought of bringing my family into it. And I did, but first I ran it through a triple-reverse-osmosis filter so as to make it a generic illustration (“I heard one time of a…” or “Perhaps you could envision a time when…” sort of thing). Yes, this time the illustration lost some of its personal feel, but the result was fine; and more than that, my daughter kept her witness protection status intact.

The unique challenges PKs face tend to stack upon each other, creating a cumulative effect. And so the book focuses on them, but parenting PKs is not sui generius (that is, not fully in a ‘class of its own’). Every parent can benefit from the sturdy counsel. Thank you, Barnabas.

Second, Barnabas, Thank You for Freeing Me From Being An Expert on Everything

I couldn’t be a pastor if I had to be everything  - toeveryone  - all of the time. Pastoring under these expectations is a crucible, and as Barnabas writes, “downright stupid”:

In the Western church the role of a pastor has taken on responsibilities and definitions it ought not. The pastor is seen as the spiritual burden bearer of the entire congregation. He is the prophetic voice of authority… He is the answer man for questions on topics ranging from sex to stewardship to sanctification… He must be an expert accountant, theologian, psychologist, marketer, strategist, and orator. In short, he must exhibit every spiritual gift from God…

The cultural expectations on pastors are mostly unbiblical, entirely impractical, and generally downright stupid. We each expect the pastor to meet our particular need with expedience and wisdom. It is an untenable situation, a burden no man can bear. (98)

I do not think these expectations have haunted me in the settings that I have pastored. And to some degree, I hope hyperbole is involved in the description. But I can say this: even when the external pressures were not there (at least to such an extensive degree), the internal pressure that I apply to myself is often there.

So, too often, I do feel this pressure. And under it, I wilt, because we pastors were never meant to be everything to everyone all of the time.

Yes, Paul wrote that he was “all things to all men” (1 Corinthians 9:19-27), but I think he means this in terms of his passion to reach people for Jesus (over and against lazy indifference); and he means this in terms of lowering himself to relate to people for the sake of Christ (“to the weak, I became weak”).

I do not think Paul intended for us (pastors and all believers) to strive for omni-competence, and embody every spiritual gift at once. That’s the job of the whole body working together in total reliance on the omni-competent God (cf., Ephesians 4:16, “when each part is working properly [in reliance on Christ, it] makes the body grow…”).

So thank you, Barnabas, for freeing me.

And Third, Barnabas, Thank You for Sharing Your Wounded-ness

Was I aware that PKs are often wounded—wounded by their fathers’ and wounded by their churches’?

I would have said ‘yes’ to this, but The Pastor’s Kid showed me the gravity of it all. I’ll give you a few places where the wounded-ness seeps through Barnabas’ words.

When describing the (very wrong) way that some people try to discern a pastor’s opinion through the pastor’s family, Barnabas writes

What are PKs to do? How do we respond [to those that should really be asking our father, not us]? The reality is, and I speak for numerous PKs, I do not care what my father thinks about many things. (58, emphasis added)

This sounds like a young man who is still healing.

But I get it. His father is a Christian celebrity, a pastor who is often asked to autograph Bibles. Yes, I’ve heard Pastor John talk about this, and it’s strange. I’m sure Barnabas is thinking, “Hey, there is a podcast specifically called “Ask Pastor John,” so send in your questions there, not to his son.”

Another place that the wounded-ness appears (at least to me), is when he talks about how pastors are often far too “serious”:

Pastors can be a serious bunch, inclined to be thinkers and systematic organizers of ideas. That’s good for sermons but often useless for relating to children. Actually, let me amend that. That kind of seriousness is good for relating to a scant few people in any age. (109)

For anyone familiar with John Piper’s ministry, especially his preaching, it’s hard to read this without seeing its pointedness towards his father, even if there is wider application to pastors generally.

A hallmark of John Piper’s preaching is seriousness (cf., comments on “gravity and gladness” in books like The Supremacy of God in Preaching). And I, for one, have actually appreciated the seriousness. But maybe I wrongly assumed there was a ‘switch’ that flips, and John Piper is, shall we say, ‘more normal’ when he is not preaching. I don’t know. But Barnabas does.

Just one other place to mention: consider the appendix that offers “Seven Rules for When You Meet a PK.” Number 6 on this list reads

6. Do not assume that we agree with all the utterances of our fathers. (146, emphasis added)

There are other words than “utterances” that could have been used.

Maybe I shouldn’t be surprised by the potential for wounded-ness. Even without the PK dynamic in place, there is behind this dynamic for all children the supercharged father/child dynamic—for Barnabas and John, and for all of us. And this relationship will always either nurture or wound, or probably more likely, always some of both. I can relate when Barnabas said: “To this day, I still yearn to have a shared hobby with my father, something as simple as golf or hiking” (111). Barnabas, I know what you mean; me too.

Anyway, that’s probably enough on this.

But I don’t dwell on the potential for wounded-ness without purpose. For me, as with other aspects in the book, the wounded-ness raised my awareness; it adjusted the DEFCON level, and that’s good: preparedness should correspond to potential danger.

In the end, The Pastor’s Kid reminded me that as parents, we play for keeps. The wounds, and joys, and pains, and pleasures of parenting are written on our children with a Sharpie.

So, yes, The Pastor’s Kid explores the challenges of being a pastor and a PK, and thus it is a book for pastors and their children. But the book is for more than this demographic. The book offers countermeasures to all parents, children, and congregations—in other words, to all Christians.

Thank you, Barnabas, for sharing your story.

A Few Favorite Quotes

Our stories [the stories of PK’s] are different. Our parents are different. Our churches are different. But the pressures are largely the same. Our struggles are the same. And so we set off to know those struggles, to seek ways to avoid them, and to find what God would have us learn from them. (Barnabas Piper, The Pastor’s Kid, 29)

Many PKs simply don’t care that much about the finer points of theology, and in that way we are very much like most Christians. But we are not allowed to be normal Christians. The expectation is for us to be exceptional Christians. (Barnabas Piper, The Pastor’s Kid, 54)

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John Piper’s Foreword to THE PASTOR’S KID by Barnabas Piper

THE PASTOR'S KID by Barnabas Piper touched a nerve. Here's a preview to my full review.

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Next Tuesday, I will post my review of The Pastor’s Kid by Barnabas Piper (the son of famous pastor and bestselling author, John Piper). Normally, my book reviews are short – less than one word for every page. But because this book touched a nerve – or better, because this book grabbed a nerve with tweezers and yanked – it’s quite a bit longer than one word per page, more like ten words per page.

The ministry of John Piper to me (and many others) has been father-like, so a book about what it was like to grow up as his son, had me at hello.

However, that’s not mainly what the book is about: growing up in the Piper home.

It’s about challenges of all Pastor’s Kids (PKs), and really, all pastors and all churches. And in the process of exploring these challenges, the book has sturdy advice about finding your identity in Christ that every Christian will benefit from – not just pastors and PKs.

Below, I copied the first paragraph from John Piper’s foreword to the book (i.e., the father of the author).

Until next Tuesday, enjoy.

You will ask, “Was it painful for me to read this book?” The answer is yes. For at least three reasons. First, it exposes sins and weaknesses and imperfections in me. Second, it is not always clear which of its criticisms attach to me and the church I love. Third, this is my son, and he is writing out of his own sorrows. (John Piper in the foreword to The Pastor’s Kids, 11)

* If you’d like to read the foreword in its entirety, before the book was released, Justin Taylor (a blogger at The Gospel Coalition), received permission to post it. You can find it here. If you’d like to read straight from Barnabas about why he wrote the book, you can read it here.

** Full review.

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THE MAN WHO PLANTED TREES by Jean Giono (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

A review of the classic short story about planting trees and the cumulative effect of long obedience in the same direction.

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The Man Who Planted Trees by Jean Giono(Chelsea Green Publishing, 2007 [originally published 1953], 72 pages)

The Man Who Planted Trees tells the story of Elzéard Bouffier, who—living alone (widowed) and in a desolate country—single-handedly reforests the land: 100 acorns a day. For decades.

The narrative, and the corresponding woodcut illustrations, engenders love, sympathy, and admiration for the man. Stuffed with biblical imagery (e.g., “Lazarus,” “Canaan,” “God’s athletes,” and Eden-like descriptions), Giono compels readers to ponder the tension between ‘what is’ and what ‘ought to be’; and then what to do about it, namely, personally committed activism over the long haul (i.e., 100 acorns a day for decades.)

I received the book from a dear friend who thought I was ‘one who planted trees.’ Having now read it, I receive the compliment gladly.

Two Favorite Quotes

"It was his opinion that this land was dying for want of trees." (Giono, The Man Who Planted Trees, 14)

"Human beings cannot thrive in a place where the natural environment has been degraded." (Maathai Wangari from the Foreward, viii).

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WHAT IS THE MEANING OF SEX? by Denny Burk (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

Lots of helpful things in WHAT IS THE MEANING OF SEX? Here are seven of them.

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What is the Meaning of Sex? by Denny Burk (Crossway, 2013, 272 pages)

What is the Meaning of Sex? does many things well, but most especially is the way it assesses each ‘sub-topic' in light of the ultimate meaning of sex, namely, the glory of God.

Hence, the symmetry of the eight chapter titles: Glorify God with Your _______ 1) …Body, 2), …Hermeneutic, 3) …Marriage, 4) …Conjugal Union, 5) …Family Planning, 6), …Gender, 7) …Sexuality, and 8) …Singleness.

Throughout, I found Burk a reliable guide.

Here are 7 significant takeaways (for me):

  1. The distinction between subordinate purposes and ultimate. Burk notes that some who discuss the purposes of sex (i.e., procreation, pleasure, etc.) stop short of identifying its ultimate purpose—like someone who states that a car is for ‘sitting in’ without drawing attention to its ultimate purpose, namely, transportation (Burk’s metaphor, 23-24).
  2. Jesus and Paul are NOT in a hermeneutical ‘cage match’—the Bible’s “red letters” vs. “black letters.” You’ll have to read the chapter; it’s good stuff.
  3. The book is not only a polemic against homosexual practice. This is in there, but the treatment doesn’t overwhelm the whole. (If there was a minor place for improvement, because Chapter 7 is so focused on homosexuality, I might encourage a title more specific than “Glorify God with your Sexuality.” The content is great, but perhaps it needs a narrower heading.)
  4. The discussion of the Pill and its potentially abortifacient qualities (148-151). This conversation is a staple of my pre-marital counseling. I appreciated the refresher.
  5. Each chapter has a great summary at the end—thoroughly useful for teaching and discussion purposes.
  6. Detailed scholarship without missing the forest.
  7. The whole of the book, in all its varied discussions, coheres.

A Key Passage

When it comes to ultimate meaning, we do not find answers in causes but in purposes. If you want to understand a hammer, it is not enough to know its cause (i.e., where the hammer came from, the factory in which it was manufactured, who designed it, etc.). To understand a hammer, I have to know for what purpose it was created. A hammer’s created purpose is to drive nails… It is the hammer’s purpose that determines the ultimate meaning, not the cause. Similarly, I might know everything there is to know about theories of human origins, about human reproduction, and about the biological genetic factors that determine human sexuality. But if I do not understand the purpose for which human sexuality was made, then I do not understand it. Nor am I prepared to give a proper ethical evaluation of its use. (Burk, What is the Meaning of Sex?, 22-23; emphasis original)

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THE DUDE’S GUIDE TO MANHOOD by Darrin Patrick (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

Confusion about manhood abounds. This book offers 10 places to start.

The Dude's Guide to Manhood: Finding True Manliness in a World of Counterfeits by Darrin Patrick (Thomas Nelson, 2014, 208 pages)

Over a breakfast, Darrin Patrick encouraged me to go to seminary. A few years ago, he was my pastor. In some ways, through the occasional conference message, blog post, and published book, like this one, I suppose he still is.

I’m thankful for that.

A Dude’s Guide to Manhood outlines 10 authentic pursuits for men, including determination, loving a woman, loving work (excellent material), and contentment. The final 2 chapters show how Jesus is the hero and what it means to have Jesus as your hero (titles: “Get What You Want: The Heroic Man” and “Living as the Forgiven Men”).

The book has vulnerability, cultural connections, and direct challenges. It’s a solid road map in a world of forgeries.

With respect to the Bible, it’s a zero-depth entry pool, which is a strength not a weakness. A dude that can’t swim isn’t likely to let you throw him off the high dive. Besides, Patrick is building somewhere, wading into deeper waters, namely “Jesus is our hero”—yes, as an example, but more than that, as our savior.

In Piper’s blurb, he advises buying a bundle—one to keep, others to give. I only bought one, although I’m doing pre-marriage counseling now with a couple, and guaranteed the dude gets a copy from me.

(FYI: promotional website http://thedudesguide.org/)

A Favorite Quote

There will be no end to our striving, no conclusion to our pursuit to peel back the layers of the onion to find the magical fix for ourselves. The only way forward is to confess our faults and our shortcoming and to acknowledge the brokenness of our core motivations and our impotence before them. Only then can we begin to pursue the life of the heroic man and be transformed by Jesus, who was the hero on our behalf. (Patrick, Dude’s Guide to Manhood, 141)

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ENCOUNTERS WITH JESUS by Timothy Keller (FAN AND FLAME Book Reviews)

When I read this book, I felt like a good friend introduced me to another good friend. You'd probably like to meet him too.

Encounters with Jesus: Unexpected Answers to Life’s Biggest Questions  by Timothy Keller (Dutton, 2013, 240 pages)

In Encounters, Dr. Timothy Keller explores 10 encounters with Jesus: 5 encounters that Jesus had with non-Christians in the Gospel of John (e.g., Nicodemus and the woman at the well), and 5 encounters with aspects of who Jesus was and what he has done (e.g., his obedience and his ascension).

In doing so, we, as readers, are forced into these same encounters—not, however, as mere spectators, but as those that must make a decision about Jesus: neutrality is not a legitimate option. “Jesus demands a radical response of some kind” (46). And in our response to Jesus, we encounter “Life’s Biggest Questions” (a fitting subtitle).

A strength of the book, as with all of Keller’s material, is the balance between accessibility and profundity—which, incidentally, in my opinion, has a deep resonance with Jesus himself—accessible, yet profound, at least for those that risk the encounter.

At our church, we recently used this book in a class, particularly the first five chapters, to leverage just these kinds of encounters—encounters with Jesus and encounters with the big questions of life—but also with one additional aim: to learn how the Master (that’s Jesus, not Keller) interacted with non-Christians. We emphasized how Jesus witnessed to others and how we might in turn then display Jesus to others. In this regard, Keller was, we might also say, a masterful example of engagement.

A Favorite Quote

Jesus then demands a radical response of some kind. You could denounce him for being evil, or you may flee from him because he’s a lunatic, or you can fall down and worship him for being God. All of those reactions make sense; they are consistent with the reality of his words. But what you can’t do is respond moderately. You must not say to him, "Nice teaching. Very helpful. You are a fine thinker." That is simply dishonest. (Keller, Encounters with Jesus, 46)

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